Uh oh...
I'm finding myself semi-justifying certain aspects of the anti-me's lifestyle, that I don't like, because we get on well. I really don't like that I'm doing that. However, the more time I spend with him, the more I see that it's a good thing that I'm remaining unattached, emotionally. Possibly, we get on so well because of the above? There's less pressure.
posted by E in Oz at 5:08 pm
these thoughts escaped my brain at 5:08 pm
14 Comments:
As Jerry Seinfeld said "everyone always gets on really well when there's no possibility of sex!"
Think this through carefully... if you bridge the gap you may not like the differences again at a later date.
You know, I think that's one of the rare serious comments you've posted on my blog. ;-) But, yeah, I know. I don't like his lifestyle, but I like hanging out with him. It doesn't add up. There's something to talk to the psych about in a couple of weeks!
Don't let the word spread, or everyone will want serious comments :)
lol.. SJ! Might ruin your rep.
Have a lovely day E. Simply listen to your deepest instincts when push comes to shove - I'm sure you'll be fine!
...yikes.....
What SJ said--before he worried about his reputation.
Well, I'd venture to guess that in the end, you may reconsider certain lifestyle choices, but the things about Anti-E which don't sit right will still bother the real-E if it really matters.
Doesn't mean you can't have fun in the meanwhile.
See - this bugs me. It's unfair to people - both guys and girls - to "have fun" with them if you have no intention of it being serious.
I don't think she meant it in that way, SJ. I think it was more like just keep hanging out and enjoy it for what it is....which is what I'm going to do for now.
Maybe. I guess it depends on whether the line gets crossed then, between friendship and something more. Generally speaking, not referring to you in particular :)
Hahaha is it really obvious that girls have toyed with me and treated me like crap my whole life, to the point where I just don't trust anyone any more? :)
Yes, but I understand, coz I know what you've had to deal with recently.
Ya know... BJ was king of the anti-me on paper.
He smokes
He drinks (I didn't really, at the time heh)
He doesn't believe in God
He doesn't believe in the afterlife
He doesn't really have any spiritual beliefs, actually
We just seem to really "work" because the core belief that we both have is to be kind to people and respect other people's opinions.
So- sometimes the anti-'you' isn't necessarily a bad thing...
I was afraid of this...
Proceed carefully.
(but have fun!)
RG, I don't think it's a bad thing so much... but I don't know if it (he) is a good thing.
G, me too! :-/
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